Many couples find that doing what they can to downplay their disparity in height fosters a greater sense of intimacy.
No one likes to be 
placed in an awkward position, especially when it comes to lovemaking. If your partner is significantly taller or shorter than you or vice-versa, here are some positions to consider to minimize they tall/short height dynamic during sex.
Doggie Style
While some may say that facing away from each other makes this position a bit impersonal it also allows for a greater focus on the sensations and less focus on the mechanics of creating them.
TALL HE / SHORT SHE:
The guy could try taking a wider stance to lower his pelvis. You could also put pillows under her knees for elevation. Moving her to the edge of the bed and standing on the floor could also make matching up easier.
SHORT HE / TALL SHE:
She can spread her knees out for a wider foundation or place the buttocks closer to the soles of her feet to allow for easier penetration.
Bunny Hop – Gal on Top
With the man laying down, the woman plants her feet or knees on the bed beside him and lowers herself onto his carrot. This position allows partners to maintain eye contact and intimacy even if kissing could be a little awkward or painful
TALL HE / SHORT SHE:
Have her lean up a bit from time-to-time and let him pump.
SHORT HE / TALL SHE:
This gives her more control and neither one of you need worry about getting crushed.
Sitting Up
This is popular with TALL HE / SHORT SHE couples, the man sits in a sturdy chair and holds his partner while she does her best impression of a wild woman at a rodeo. With enough support for leverage, TALL SHE / SHORT HE couples could find this a very pleasurable position too.
Kneeling – Prayer Position
This is a Missionary Position alternative where the man is on his knees, raises the woman’s legs and places them on his shoulders or bends her legs to hold the backs of her thighs or calves.
TALL HE / SHORT SHE:
Put pillows under the woman’s pelvis or a foam wedge beneath her lower back. As a variation, pull her to the edge of the bed or find a counter-top or table that is strong enough to support her weight and stand.
SHORT HE / TALL SHE:
Use her legs for leverage and once you’re in, show her your best moves.
The Y-Position
This is a spooning alternative where you create a bit of distance between your upper bodies. With both partners on their sides the focus can be on the sensations of a gliding penetration without the distraction of one partner breathing into the others back, neck or above the head.
Every Couple Is Unique
Remember that in order to fully appreciate lovemaking, you have to discover what works for you and your partner as individuals. Some of the aforementioned positions may not be suitable for your situation, but you should have enough ideas now to get creative. Ultimately you’ll have to take the time to find out what does work and hopefully you’ll have a lot of fun along the way.
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